But I'm gonna let you in on a secret. Even if you're not blessed with the best genes out there in the world, there are still a few things that you can do that you can implement to be a more and better attractive version of yourself and that's what I'm gonna talk about.

So we're gonna talk about seven things, let's not waste any more time. 

                               

What makes a man really attractive?  I mean a lot of guys out there especially young guys think that it's the guy who just looks good, who just dress as well drives down Ferrari or Lamborghini. is it true though? Definitely Not.

That's only what the movies and TV series show you that's what media does. Brainwashes people. But it's not true.

Recently I read a survey made on models and girls from all over the world, and when they were asked What type of men are more attractive? or what qualities in a man attracts them?

This is what most of them said, they don't really like the guy who tries to show off, pops himself up, driving the car, and has a lot of money. 

They like the car I mean who doesn't like the car but they don't like the guy because they think he's arrogant and he's just a tool (Well, not all guys are like that..you know what I mean..).

So what makes a guy really attractive? Well, let's start with the first one open body language- open and friendly. look if you are going to stand somewhere arms closed, serious facial expression, looking down, and if you do look at the girls just quickly look at her and look down or something.

You're making it very hard for her to get that courage to come and talk to you. That's on you because you don't look open and you don't look friendly.

                             

Remember, if somebody sees you for the first time right, they didn't speak to you. Yeah, they don't know who you are so they make assumptions of what you are based on the way you dress, but also your body language and your behavior.

So they look at you from a distance and they look at your body language. If your body language is not open and friendly, what are they gonna think?

Now, it's interesting that studies showed that men who have open and friendly body postures, they look a lot more attractive than those who do not.

Get in shape. you don't have to become a bodybuilder and get the buff but just get healthy. Get in shape so that you will feel and also look a lot better.

I mean people have different tastes out there but studies from UCLA and others show that the majority of women find men who have lean muscle mass a lot more attractive than guys that are very skinny or the too buff.

If you don't know how to build lean muscle mass. I’ll try to come up with this topic soon.

                                

Now you might be asking, like what? really? Giving compliments to people is gonna make me more attractive!!

Well, Yes. If you don't understand this by now and you need to get this. People will always forget what you say to them but they will never forget how you make them feel! 

I’ll say it again  People will forget what you tell them but they will never forget how you make them feel!  

So unconsciously people will find you a lot more attractive because of the way they feel when they think about you.

That's one of the reasons why people do not like selfish people or self-absorbed people or negative people. They don't like it because they just always talk about themselves. let me ask you a question when was the last time when you complimented somebody?

If you're open and honest you'll be more attractive than most of the guys out there that used those horrible pick-up lines.

                                         

You know what I'm talking about..! Please don't ever use those cheesy and corny pickup lines like this- excuse me! do you have a map and they’ll say like no right.. and you'll be like oh! because I need a map because I keep getting lost in your beautiful eyes…(that’s funny). But this is so bad. very bad.

Here's the thing, Women find a man with integrity attractive so men who stand by his word who keep his promises. A new research study done in 20 different countries prove that your personality is more important to people than looks.

                           

Yes, this is very basic but a lot of guys out there still don't do it. So clean yourself up a little bit, get the haircut that fits in with your face shape, get a good skincare routine so your face looks nice and clear, and then also wear the right clothes that fit in with your body exactly.

Your dressing and style sense plays a big role in putting your impression anywhere. one of the best thing you can try if you want to put a good impression is Being Sober. It really attracts.

If you're not sure about any of these things I’ll come with a blog on this soon. So don’t worry. 

All right, let's move on to the next one. be well-mannered. I mean you stand out immensely because there are just so many guys out there who just don't have good manners.

               

I mean there's been a lot of studies on this and even in China studies show that people who are kind and honest were rated more attractive than other people.

And remember this, you can easily judge the character of any man by the way he treats other people who cannot do anything for him.. you see what I'm saying.

Yes, it sounds a little bit weird and a lot of men won't agree with me here but let me explain it to you. Even in my culture, we're taught, hey you're a guy, be strong, you don't cry, we don't bleed, don't show your emotions

And with the result that many women out there think that we feel emotionally a lot less than they do. But we hurt, we bleed, we do feel emotions as well.

You know, opening up your emotions did not hurt your pride or anything at all, it’ll make you stronger, it makes you emotionally more stable it makes a connection with you and your partner.

It just makes your bond so much stronger. It's interesting that studies also showed that when men are vulnerable, women find them more desirable both emotionally and sexually. Why? because it allows them to connect with you on a deeper level and they cannot connect with men who are closed off and don't want to talk about their emotions. Share your emotions and whatever you feel in order to built a trust and strong connection with your partner.

These are some research-based facts that will help you to become more attractive than others.

Be more friendly, open, Look good, be well mannered, and keep yourself fit. You have to take care of yourself, maintain yourself if you want to attract anyone you want.

What are your lifestyle hacks to be more attractive? Do share your views and suggestions in the comment section.